Bullying-Related Suicide.

These days, I saw a lot of news about suicide by students. It seems all of them are related to bullying. Don't be a bully. And, sheepish boys, pay off!.



I think Bullying is not only matter of children. Adults in office are also too. In Japan, bullying by girls is more insidious. Is this same as your country?



I've read a article that there is no bullying at America's schools. Is this true? If so, it is very wonderful.



The author of the article said that "Americans do not bully because bullying has the potential to cause issues of racism. Results of bullying are more serious than Japan.", and that "Homogeneousness of Japanese is a reason too.".



I suppose "difference" means bad to some extent in Japan, at least more than America. I think bullying by kids are caused by the feeling about difference. I know about it very well because my hair color is flax（亜麻色,Amairo in Japanese).



In fact, often I've been called "Gaijin!" by my friends at kindergarten and elementary school. It was very sad experience. I feel inferiority complex so much. Invidiously, I payed back them. When I didn't pay back, my parents got angry saying "YOU ARE A MAN! DON'T LOSE THEM! WE DON'T NEED SUCH PUNY BOY!!". Thus, I devote my school life to fighting.=D It may sounds violent, but I think it is a very important thing to resolve bullying. If I didn't pay back, the bullying will be escalated　absolutely. Likely, Japanese kids learn about bullying by such interchange.



As for sheepish boy and girls, they can't pay back. Thus, bullying is escalated. Some of them commit a suicide. And I saw the news.



One reason of bullying at school is teacher. Schools disguise bullying. Some teacher trigger bullying for example saying "You are rotted strawberry, you are an incapable person.". The student had killed himself.



I was also be said that "your hair color is different from others, so、color your hair to black. ". As for me, I went to second master's office and tell him about what the teacher said immediately. And the second master chewed out him. "



And kid who is bullied disguise it too. Because if classmates know it, the bullying would be escalated. Alas.



Likely, current Japanese schools and parents regard fighting as bad thing too much. I suppose it is one of reason of bullying escalated. Because they are not adults, only to try to negotiate a solution is a stupid thing, I think. At least, Japanese teachers and parents forgot we are Japanese. Especially, school boys build a friendship and a bond though scrap and learn what human is, at least in Japan.



Wow, it is time to go out.



I took the photo at a Japanese garden. Unfortunately, it is not my garden.=D